How women can deal with premature ejaculation in men

It is natural to be really concerned if you partner suffers from premature ejaculation on a regular basis, you may believe this to be a rare problem but you can find that many men suffer from this condition. Having understood that this is quite a common problem, you should help your partner find ways to address it. You should ask yourself what you can do.

Your partner's natural reaction to suffering from premature ejaculation could be a feeling of resentment and rejection, he may be ready to look for advice and help from his doctor immediately. What you will understand is that the problems that you are both facing confront many couples today and essentially you are not alone. The first step back to a normal sexual relationship is helping your partner to relax and unwind.

There are many things that you can do to take the stress out of your sexual relations to make sure that each encounter will work well for both of you. Firstly, when you are preparing to enjoy each other's company, the mood should be relaxed; perhaps a glass of wine, some soothing music in addition to an overall impression of having time to take in the moment as well as indulge and enjoy yourselves slowly. Why is this important?

Premature ejaculation is most often caused by pure stress. Whereas in the past generations, it seemed that there was all the time in the world to gradually form loving relationships, you may feel that this is not a luxury commodity that we enjoy today. Everything must be performed at high speed. You are taught that if you can't make a good impression in 5 seconds, you have lost the attention of the person you are talking to and this need for speed translates to sex too.

With all this pressure, it is not surprising that suffering from premature ejaculation is a problem that is more common than most people believe. As a woman, you can really help and the most important aspect is to calm your partner down. You will need to decide the best method, and perhaps a massage or a cool glass of white wine will work best, maybe both the massage and the glass of white wine together will help to relax the both of you. Either way you need to provide a stress free environment where your man can literally relax and feel calm. As you see the layers of stress drop off and disappear, he will be more ready for you and you for him so the chances of disappointment will be reduced to the bare minimum.

If after many attempts that premature ejaculation is still a problem, you must understand that this is no form of impotency, in fact it is quite the reverse. It is an ability to be aroused too soon and you will have to use all of your female cunning to channel this pent up energy to deliver it to exactly where it should be, at the right place and the right time, inside you.